Even though statistical trends related to pastoral burnout are beginning to trend positively[1], as pastors around the world step into the pulpit to deliver their Christmas Eve messages this year–most of which are filled with the hope and peace found in an infant born in Bethlehem over 2000 years ago–very large numbers of pastors have still considered quitting ministry this year.
If you are thinking, “Well, not my pastor,” statistically, about 1 in 3 of you are wrong[2].
Some churches love their pastors really well, and occasionally I hear those stories. Stories of pastors being left notes of encouragement on the regular, congregants going out of their way to thank their pastors for the loads they carry and the ways they serve. But, and don’t be offended, most churches don’t do this.
It is very likely that this year your pastor has received many, complaining, critiquing, and downright nasty emails. Has stepped into multiple meetings with people who are angry with him or the church, he’s lost relationships with people he considered friends over trivial matters and has been the subject of some unkind gossip amongst those he has probably prayed for, cared for and made sacrifices for.
Normal pastoral ministry is an already heavy burden and most pastors who consider quitting claim the immense stress of the job is the number one reason for their consideration. The extra relational difficulty does not help pastors make it long term.
Most pastors will never let you know the depth of the burden they are feeling, the weariness in their souls, and the long dark moments spent questioning their calling. They are still busy praying, preaching, counseling, caring, and supporting the church. But make no mistake they feel it.
Have you ever wondered what an exhausted bird without a place to land looks like five minutes before it falls from the sky? Probably much like a healthy one–they’re both flying.
Friends, this Christmas-time, please take the time to go out of your way to encourage your pastor, to check in on them, to let them know that you know they’re weary from pouring themselves out to serve you and those around you in this very trying time.
Let the elders who rule well be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching.
– 1 Tim 5:17
What might honoring those who keep a watch over your souls specifically look like this season?
[1] https://www.barna.com/research/sop-2024-webcast/
[2] https://www.barna.com/research/hopeful-increases-pastors/